Now let me be clear - There’s no judgment around what size bed you have, it’s just a place of reflection to notice. Would you feel happier in your marriage if you had more space in bed? Would you feel more connected if you had a smaller bed?
Read MoreHave you ever been disappointed on Valentine’s Day? Or are you a rockstar requester for what you desire? (orrrrr is your partner psychic?!)
Read MoreDo you feel like you’re always the one to step up and take leadership in your relationship? If so, how do you feel about it?
Read MoreIt’s easy to get frustrated in moments when you ask for support but don’t get exactly what you need - or when something doesn’t get done in exactly the way you would do it yourself.
Read MoreMy client had just told her friend how much she looooooves her dog, and that was her friend’s response.
Read MoreWhen our partner responds with a No or an eye-roll, it’s easy to interpret as them not listening, caring, or loving us. It’s not true, but that’s the interpretation.
Read MoreWhether the answer is yes or no, let’s normalize the question. When you do, you not only develop a new relationship with your own ability to ask and receive, but you get to model it for your partner and any children you might have.
Read MoreI was thrilled to talk to James Lott Jr about all of this and more, on his podcast A Lott of Help. We talk about my best dating strategies for singles, plus how to navigate communication in couples.
Read MoreIn romantic relationships in particular, which is what we’re here to talk about, the festering anger or frustration is very likely to be aimed at your partner in conscious or unconscious ways if it’s not addressed.
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